tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1459911681566627296.post1864478466370656603..comments2023-05-20T08:49:51.904-05:00Comments on Rainbows and Pony Rides: Distance MotheringLGAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03631019001084319694noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1459911681566627296.post-6369059295791525762010-06-19T17:19:04.967-05:002010-06-19T17:19:04.967-05:00You're right, communication, in whatever form,...You're right, communication, in whatever form, is better than none. She is going to have all kinds of emotions because that's what happens at her age. Throw in the added situation with you, and she is going to veer wildly. She will likely be angry at times, and it is important that she have the safety, with you, to express them. You are a GOOD mother, and I know you already know this. But this is a fragile time for you, too, and you just have to rememeber to not take it personally so you can be the strong sounding board she needs. If she sees that a particular thing hurts you, she will probably use it again when she feels like lashing out. She needs you and your love and really, that's all she wants.Rexienoreply@blogger.com