My daughter, L, called me at 9:45 last evening and she was hysterical. I couldn't understand her. She is my "middle" and has been very quiet lately. I got her to calm down enough to recount the details of the evening and tell me why she was so upset. Sounded to me like normal sibling bickering. (For those readers that don't know, I have five kidlets.) She was clearly upset by something else, so we just kept talking.
Here's where I get gut-punched. Her father had threatened her that she would have to live with me if she didn't start behaving.
Yeah, yeah . . . "What? A non-custodial mother?!" Gasp. Bite me bitches. I do what works for my kids.
So here is this ass-bag though, using living arrangements as a threat? As a parenting tool? Get a fucking clue dickwad. Of course when I talked to him about it, and tried to explain how completely inappropriate and unhealthy this is for the children . . . he accuses me of already ruining them with my "lifestyle" and then hangs up on me.
So which is you fucking piece of dog shit? Do you want to send the kids back to their mom? Or is their gay mom ruining them for life?
I guess it's whatever is convenient for him at the time. I do think two things have contributed to this though; his nanny mother was buried today, and he has a new potential child bride girlfriend. So I guess he is stressed. WHAT THE FUCK EVER. Guess what douche bag, stress is a part of life. Cope with it. Leave the kids out of it.
Okay. End of rant.
